Marriage in Islam - A Sacred Bond
Marriage is half of faith in Islam, and Allah has provided beautiful duas to guide us through every stage
of this blessed journey. From finding a righteous spouse to maintaining love and harmony in marriage,
these authentic supplications from the Quran and Sunnah bring divine blessings to couples. Whether seeking
love marriage, performing Istikhara, or strengthening marital bonds, these prayers connect us with Allah's
wisdom in creating love, mercy, and tranquility between spouses.
Finding Righteous Spouse
ุฑูุจููููุง ููุจู ููููุง ู
ููู ุฃูุฒูููุงุฌูููุง ููุฐูุฑูููููุงุชูููุง ููุฑููุฉู ุฃูุนููููู ููุงุฌูุนูููููุง ููููู
ูุชููููููู ุฅูู
ูุงู
ูุง
Rabbana hab lana min azwajina wa dhurriyyatina qurrata a'yunin wa-j'alna li'l-muttaqina imama
"Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous."
Reference: Quran 25:74 - The prayer of Allah's righteous servants for blessed spouses and children
ุงููููููู
ูู ุฅููููู ุฃูุณูุฃููููู ู
ููู ุฎูููุฑู ุงููููุณูุงุกู ููุฎูููุฑู ู
ูุง ุฌูุจูููุชูููููู ุนููููููู
Allahumma inni as'aluka min khayri'n-nisa'i wa khayri ma jabaltahunna 'alayhi
"O Allah, I ask You for the best of women and the best characteristics You have created them with."
For men seeking wives. Women can adapt: "Allahumma inni as'aluki min khayri'r-rijali wa khayri ma jabaltahum 'alayhi" (O Allah, I ask You for the best of men and the best characteristics You have created them with)
ุงููููููู
ูู ุจูุงุฑููู ููู ูููู
ูุง ุฃูุนูุทูููุชู ููููููู ุดูุฑูู ู
ูุง ููุถูููุชู
Allahumma barik li fima a'tayta wa qini sharra ma qadayta
"O Allah, bless me in what You have given me and protect me from the evil of what You have decreed."
Usage: Recite when Allah facilitates meeting potential marriage partners, seeking His blessing and protection in the choice
Qualities of a Righteous Spouse in Islam
๐คฒ Religious Commitment
Regular prayers
Strong faith in Allah
Good Islamic character
๐ Good Character
Kindness and mercy
Honesty and trustworthiness
Patience and forgiveness
๐จโ๐ฉโ๐งโ๐ฆ Family Values
Respect for parents
Love for children
Commitment to family
๐ Knowledge & Wisdom
Islamic knowledge
Life skills
Good judgment
๐ช Responsibility
Financial responsibility
Emotional maturity
Life stability
๐ค Compatibility
Shared values
Mutual respect
Common goals
Love Marriage Duas
ุงููููููู
ูู ุฅููู ููุงูู ููุฐูุง ุงููุฃูู
ูุฑู ุฎูููุฑูุง ููู ููู ุฏููููู ููู
ูุนูุงุดูู ููุนูุงููุจูุฉู ุฃูู
ูุฑูู ููุงููุฏูุฑููู ููู ููููุณููุฑููู ููู ุซูู
ูู ุจูุงุฑููู ููู ููููู
Allahumma in kana hadha'l-amru khayran li fi dini wa ma'ashi wa 'aqibati amri fa-qdurhu li wa yassirhu li thumma barik li fih
"O Allah, if this matter is good for me concerning my religion, my livelihood and my affairs' consequences, then ordain it for me, make it easy for me, and then bless me in it."
Reference: Part of Istikhara prayer - Essential for love marriage decisions
ุฑูุจูู ุฅููููู ููู
ูุง ุฃููุฒูููุชู ุฅูููููู ู
ููู ุฎูููุฑู ูููููุฑู
Rabbi inni lima anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqir
"My Lord, indeed I am, for whatever good You would send down to me, in need."
Reference: Quran 28:24 - Prophet Musa's dua when in need, including need for a righteous spouse
Islamic Approach to Love Marriage
Islam recognizes love as a natural emotion that can lead to marriage, but emphasizes these principles:
- Pure Intentions: Love should be for Allah's sake and for righteous qualities
- Islamic Boundaries: Maintain proper conduct before marriage
- Family Involvement: Seek parents' blessing and guidance
- Istikhara: Always seek Allah's guidance through prayer
- Character Assessment: Evaluate religious commitment and moral character
- Patience: Trust Allah's timing and wisdom
Duas for Parents' Approval for Love Marriage
ุฑูุจูู ุฃูููุฒูุนูููู ุฃููู ุฃูุดูููุฑู ููุนูู
ูุชููู ุงูููุชูู ุฃูููุนูู
ูุชู ุนูููููู ููุนูููููฐ ููุงููุฏูููู ููุฃููู ุฃูุนูู
ููู ุตูุงููุญูุง ุชูุฑูุถูุงูู ููุฃูุตูููุญู ููู ููู ุฐูุฑูููููุชูู
Rabbi awzi'ni an ashkura ni'mataka'llati an'amta 'alayya wa 'ala walidayya wa an a'mala salihan tardahu wa aslih li fi dhurriyyati
"My Lord, enable me to be grateful for Your favor which You have bestowed upon me and upon my parents and to do righteousness of which You approve. And make righteous for me my offspring."
Reference: Quran 46:15 - Includes praying for parents' blessing and righteousness in family matters
ุฑูุจููููุง ุงุบูููุฑู ููู ููููููุงููุฏูููู ููููููู
ูุคูู
ูููููู ููููู
ู ูููููู
ู ุงููุญูุณูุงุจู
Rabbana'ghfir li wa li-walidayya wa li'l-mu'minina yawma yaqumu'l-hisab
"Our Lord, forgive me and my parents and the believers the Day the account is established."
Reference: Quran 14:41 - Prophet Ibrahim's dua showing respect for parents before making requests
ุฑูุจูู ุงุดูุฑูุญู ููู ุตูุฏูุฑูู ููููุณููุฑู ููู ุฃูู
ูุฑูู
Rabbi-shrah li sadri wa yassir li amri
"My Lord, expand for me my breast [with confidence] and ease for me my task."
Reference: Quran 20:25-26 - Prophet Musa's dua for difficult situations including family discussions
Islamic Approach to Gaining Parents' Approval
- Respect Parents: Always show utmost respect even when they disagree
- Communicate Properly: Explain your choice calmly with valid Islamic reasons
- Involve Elders: Ask respected family members or scholars to mediate
- Show Character: Demonstrate the person's good Islamic character and values
- Be Patient: Give parents time to consider and make dua consistently
- Istikhara: Perform Istikhara and encourage parents to do the same
- Compromise: Be willing to meet reasonable parental conditions
Duas for Marrying a Specific Person
ุงููููููู
ูู ุฅููููู ุฃูุณูุชูุฎููุฑููู ุจูุนูููู
ููู ููุฃูุณูุชูููุฏูุฑููู ุจูููุฏูุฑูุชููู
Allahumma inni astakhiruka bi 'ilmika wa astaqdiruka bi qudratik
"O Allah, I seek guidance from Your knowledge, and I seek ability from Your power."
Reference: Beginning of Istikhara - Always start by seeking Allah's guidance about specific person
ุงููููููู
ูู ุฅููู ููุงูู ุฒูููุงุฌูู ู
ููู [ููููุงู] ุฎูููุฑูุง ููู ููู ุฏููููู ููู
ูุนูุงุดูู ููุนูุงููุจูุฉู ุฃูู
ูุฑูู ููุงููุฏูุฑููู ููู ููููุณููุฑููู ููู ุซูู
ูู ุจูุงุฑููู ููู ููููู
Allahumma in kana zawaji min [person's name] khayran li fi dini wa ma'ashi wa 'aqibati amri fa-qdurhu li wa yassirhu li thumma barik li fih
"O Allah, if marrying [specific person] is good for me in my religion, my livelihood and my affairs' consequences, then ordain it for me, make it easy for me, and bless me in it."
Reference: Sahih Bukhari - Complete Istikhara adapted for marriage to specific person
ููุฅููู ููุงูู ุดูุฑููุง ููู ููู ุฏููููู ููู
ูุนูุงุดูู ููุนูุงููุจูุฉู ุฃูู
ูุฑูู ููุงุตูุฑููููู ุนููููู ููุงุตูุฑูููููู ุนููููู
Wa in kana sharran li fi dini wa ma'ashi wa 'aqibati amri fa-srifhu 'anni wa-srifni 'anhu
"And if it is bad for me in my religion, my livelihood and my affairs' consequences, then turn it away from me and turn me away from it."
Reference: Second part of Istikhara - Equally important to ask Allah to prevent it if harmful
Important Points About Marrying Specific Person
- Istikhara is Essential: Always perform complete Istikhara before pursuing specific person
- Look for Signs: After Istikhara, observe if path becomes easy or difficult
- Don't Force: If obstacles keep appearing, it may be Allah protecting you
- Check Compatibility: Ensure religious compatibility and shared values
- Family Involvement: Involve families properly from the beginning
- Accept Allah's Answer: If it doesn't work out, trust Allah has better plans
Istikhara for Marriage
ุงููููููู
ูู ุฅููููู ุฃูุณูุชูุฎููุฑููู ุจูุนูููู
ููู ููุฃูุณูุชูููุฏูุฑููู ุจูููุฏูุฑูุชููู ููุฃูุณูุฃููููู ู
ููู ููุถููููู ุงููุนูุธููู
ู ููุฅูููููู ุชูููุฏูุฑู ููููุง ุฃูููุฏูุฑู ููุชูุนูููู
ู ููููุง ุฃูุนูููู
ู ููุฃูููุชู ุนููููุงู
ู ุงููุบููููุจู
Allahumma inni astakhiruka bi 'ilmika wa astaqdiruka bi qudratika wa as'aluka min fadlik al-'azim fa-innaka taqdiru wa la aqdir wa ta'lamu wa la a'lam wa anta 'allam al-ghuyub
"O Allah, I seek guidance from Your knowledge, and I seek ability from Your power, and I ask for Your great bounty. You are capable and I am not. You know and I do not. You are the Knower of the unseen."
Part 1 of complete Istikhara - Continue with specific request about the marriage decision
ุงููููููู
ูู ุฅููู ููููุชู ุชูุนูููู
ู ุฃูููู ุฒูููุงุฌูู ู
ููู [ุงุฐูููุฑู ุงููุงุณูู
ู] ุฎูููุฑู ููู ููู ุฏููููู ููู
ูุนูุงุดูู ููุนูุงููุจูุฉู ุฃูู
ูุฑูู ููุงููุฏูุฑููู ููู ููููุณููุฑููู ููู ุซูู
ูู ุจูุงุฑููู ููู ููููู
Allahumma in kunta ta'lam anna zawaji min [mention name] khayrun li fi dini wa ma'ashi wa 'aqibati amri fa-qdurhu li wa yassirhu li thumma barik li fih
"O Allah, if You know that marrying [mention name] is good for me concerning my religion, my livelihood and my affairs' consequences, then ordain it for me, make it easy for me, and then bless me in it."
Reference: Sahih Bukhari - The complete prophetic Istikhara adapted for marriage decisions
How to Perform Istikhara for Marriage
๐ Preparation
Be in state of wudu
Choose quiet time
Have sincere intention
๐ Prayer Method
Pray 2 rak'ah nafil
Recite Istikhara dua
Mention specific person
โฐ Frequency
Can repeat for 7 days
Best after night prayers
Be patient for signs
๐ Understanding Results
Look for ease or difficulty
Feel peace or discomfort
Notice circumstances
Getting Married Soon
ุฑูุจูู ููุง ุชูุฐูุฑูููู ููุฑูุฏูุง ููุฃููุชู ุฎูููุฑู ุงููููุงุฑูุซูููู
Rabbi la tadharni fardan wa anta khayru'l-warithin
"My Lord, do not leave me alone [without offspring/companion], while You are the best of inheritors."
Reference: Quran 21:89 - Prophet Zakariya's dua, applicable for seeking a spouse
ุงููููููู
ูู ููุง ุณููููู ุฅููููุง ู
ูุง ุฌูุนูููุชููู ุณูููููุง ููุฃูููุชู ุชูุฌูุนููู ุงููุญูุฒููู ุฅูุฐูุง ุดูุฆูุชู ุณูููููุง
Allahumma la sahla illa ma ja'altahu sahlan wa anta taj'alu'l-hazna idha shi'ta sahlan
"O Allah, there is no ease except in that which You have made easy, and You make the difficult easy if it be Your Will."
Usage: Perfect for when facing financial, family, or other obstacles to marriage
Practical Steps for Quick Marriage
๐คฒ Spiritual Preparation
- Increase prayers and duas
- Seek forgiveness (istighfar)
- Give charity (sadaqah)
๐จโ๐ฉโ๐งโ๐ฆ Family Involvement
- Inform family of intentions
- Seek parents' prayers
- Use family networks
๐ Active Search
- Use Islamic matrimonial services
- Attend community events
- Ask righteous friends
Newly Married Couple Duas
ุจูุงุฑููู ุงูููููู ููููู
ูุง ููุจูุงุฑููู ุนูููููููู
ูุง ููุฌูู
ูุนู ุจูููููููู
ูุง ููู ุฎูููุฑู
Baraka'llahu lakuma wa baraka 'alaykuma wa jama'a baynakuma fi khayr
"May Allah bless both of you, and may Allah bless you both, and may Allah bring you together in goodness."
Reference: Abu Dawud & Tirmidhi - The prophetic congratulation and blessing for newly married couples
ุงููููููู
ูู ุจูุงุฑููู ููููุง ูููู
ูุง ุฑูุฒูููุชูููุง ููุฒูุฏูููุง ู
ููู ููุถููููู ููุฑูุญูู
ูุชููู
Allahumma barik lana fima razaqtana wa zidna min fadlika wa rahmatik
"O Allah, bless us in what You have provided for us, and increase us from Your bounty and mercy."
Usage: Recite together on wedding night, thanking Allah for the blessing of marriage
First Week Marriage Routine
๐
Morning Together
Fajr prayer together
Morning duas
Gratitude for marriage
๐ Daily Connection
Share Islamic goals
Plan family future
Express appreciation
๐ Evening Reflection
Maghrib prayer together
Discuss the day
Make duas for each other
๐คฒ Weekly Goals
Set Islamic family goals
Plan charity together
Study Islam together
Husband Wife Love Duas
ุฑูุจููููุง ููุจู ููููุง ู
ููู ุฃูุฒูููุงุฌูููุง ููุฐูุฑูููููุงุชูููุง ููุฑููุฉู ุฃูุนููููู
Rabbana hab lana min azwajina wa dhurriyyatina qurrata a'yun
"Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes."
Reference: Quran 25:74 - The ultimate prayer for spousal happiness
ุงููููููู
ูู ุฃูููููู ุจููููู ูููููุจูููุง ููุฃูุตูููุญู ุฐูุงุชู ุจูููููููุง
Allahumma allif bayna qulubina wa aslih dhata baynina
"O Allah, unite our hearts and set right the matters between us."
Reference: Based on prophetic supplications for unity between believers
ููุฌูุนููู ุจูููููููู
ู
ููููุฏููุฉู ููุฑูุญูู
ูุฉู
Wa ja'ala baynakum mawaddatan wa rahmah
"And He placed between you affection and mercy."
Reference: Quran 30:21 - Allah's description of marriage love; recite as reminder and supplication
Building Lasting Love in Marriage
- Daily Duas: Pray for each other regularly
- Express Gratitude: Thank Allah for your spouse daily
- Kind Words: Follow prophetic example of gentle speech
- Shared Worship: Pray together, study Islam together
- Forgiveness: Quickly forgive small mistakes
- Quality Time: Spend time together without distractions
- Communication: Share feelings and dreams openly
Husband Love Duas (Wife's Supplications)
ุงููููููู
ูู ุฃูููููู ุจููููู ูููููุจูููุง ููุงุฌูุนููู ุจูููููููุง ู
ูููุฏููุฉู ููุฑูุญูู
ูุฉู
Allahumma allif bayna qulubina wa-j'al baynana mawaddatan wa rahmah
"O Allah, unite our hearts and place between us affection and mercy."
Reference: Based on Quran 30:21 - Essential dua for wives seeking husband's love
ุฑูุจููููุง ููุจู ููููุง ู
ููู ุฃูุฒูููุงุฌูููุง ููุฑููุฉู ุฃูุนููููู
Rabbana hab lana min azwajina qurrata a'yun
"Our Lord, grant us from among our spouses comfort to our eyes."
Usage: Perfect for wives seeking deeper emotional connection with husband
ุงููููููู
ูู ุงุฌูุนูููููู ู
ููู ุฎูููุฑู ุงููููุณูุงุกู ููุฒูููุฌูู
Allahumma-j'alni min khayri'n-nisa'i li-zawji
"O Allah, make me among the best of wives for my husband."
Usage: Focus on being the best wife - this naturally increases husband's love
ุงููููููู
ูู ุฃูุตูููุญู ููู ุฒูููุฌูู ููุงุฌูุนููููู ุฑูุญููู
ูุง ุจูู
Allahumma aslih li zawji wa-j'alhu rahiman bi
"O Allah, make my husband righteous for me and make him merciful to me."
Usage: Daily supplication for wife seeking husband's care and kindness
ุงููููููู
ูู ุฃูุฐูููุจู ุบูุถูุจููู ููุงุฌูุนููููู ุฑูุงุถูููุง ุนููููู
Allahumma adh-hib ghadabahu wa-j'alhu radiyan 'anni
"O Allah, remove his anger and make him pleased with me."
Usage: Recite when husband is upset; also make personal effort to resolve issues
How to Increase Husband's Love (Islamic Way)
- Be Righteous: The Prophet ๏ทบ said the best wife is the righteous one
- Beautiful Character: Kindness, patience, and good manners attract love
- Support Him: Be supportive of his halal goals and aspirations
- Respect: Show respect even during disagreements
- Make Dua: Consistently pray for your marriage and husband
- Physical Care: Take care of your appearance within halal limits
- Create Peace: Make home a peaceful sanctuary for him
Duas for Creating Love in Hearts
โ ๏ธ Important Islamic Reminder
Hearts are in Allah's hands: We cannot force love or manipulate feelings. These duas ask Allah to create natural love IF it's good for both people. True love develops through good character, compatibility, and Allah's will - not through force or magic.
ุงููููููู
ูู ุฅููู ููุงูู ุฎูููุฑูุง ููุฃูููููู ุจููููู ูููููุจูููุง
Allahumma in kana khayran fa-allif bayna qulubina
"O Allah, if it is good, then unite our hearts."
Usage: Conditional prayer - asking only if it's good for both parties
ุฑูุจููููุง ููุจู ููููุง ู
ููู ุฃูุฒูููุงุฌูููุง ููุฑููุฉู ุฃูุนููููู
Rabbana hab lana min azwajina qurrata a'yun
"Our Lord, grant us from among our spouses comfort to our eyes."
Reference: Quran 25:74 - Ask Allah for a spouse who will naturally love you
The Right Way to Win Hearts in Islam
- Good Character: The Prophet ๏ทบ said best Muslims have best character
- Be Yourself: Authentic character attracts genuine love
- Improve Yourself: Work on deen, manners, and good qualities
- Make Dua: Ask Allah for the best, not to force specific outcome
- Halal Conduct: Always maintain Islamic boundaries
- Accept Qadr: If someone doesn't reciprocate, it's Allah's protection
- Trust Allah: He knows what's best for you
Marriage Problems Duas
ุฑูุจููููุง ุฃูุตูููุญู ููููุง ุฏููููููุง ุงูููุฐูู ูููู ุนูุตูู
ูุฉู ุฃูู
ูุฑูููุง ููุฃูุตูููุญู ููููุง ุฏูููููุงููุง ุงูููุชูู ูููููุง ู
ูุนูุงุดูููุง
Rabbana aslih lana dinana'lladhi huwa 'ismatu amrina wa aslih lana dunyyana'llati fiha ma'ashuna
"Our Lord, make our religion right for us, which is the safeguard of our affairs, and make our world right for us, wherein is our livelihood."
Reference: Sahih Muslim - Comprehensive prayer for fixing all life problems including marriage
ุฑูุจููููุง ุฃูููุฑูุบู ุนูููููููุง ุตูุจูุฑูุง ููุชููููููููุง ู
ูุณูููู
ูููู
Rabbana afrigh 'alayna sabran wa tawaffana muslimin
"Our Lord, pour upon us patience and let us die as Muslims."
Reference: Quran 7:126 - Essential for maintaining faith during marital challenges
ุงููููููู
ูู ุฃูุตูููุญู ุจูููููููุง ููุฃูููููู ุจููููู ูููููุจูููุง
Allahumma aslih baynana wa allif bayna qulubina
"O Allah, set right between us and unite our hearts."
Usage: Perfect for any marital disagreement or relationship strain
Solving Marriage Problems Islamically
- Make sincere supplications to Allah
- Examine your own faults first
- Seek forgiveness from Allah and spouse
- Allow time for healing and change
- Speak kindly and listen actively
- Seek Islamic counseling if needed
- Involve righteous family members
Restoring Love After Conflict
- Don't let anger last overnight
- Apologize sincerely for mistakes
- Resume loving gestures
- Plan special moments together
- List spouse's good qualities
- Pray together for healing
- Show love through actions
Duas to Stop Fights Between Husband and Wife
ุงููููููู
ูู ุฃูุตูููุญู ุฐูุงุชู ุจูููููููุง ููุฃูููููู ุจููููู ูููููุจูููุง
Allahumma aslih dhata baynina wa allif bayna qulubina
"O Allah, set right the matters between us and unite our hearts."
Usage: Recite mentally during arguments to seek Allah's help in calming situation
ุงููููููู
ูู ุงุฌูุนููู ุจูููููููุง ุงูุณูููููููุฉู ููุงูุฑููุญูู
ูุฉู
Allahumma-j'al baynana's-sakinata wa'r-rahmah
"O Allah, place between us tranquility and mercy."
Reference: Based on Quranic concept of sakinah (tranquility) in marriage
ุฑูุจููููุง ููุจู ููููุง ู
ููู ุฃูุฒูููุงุฌูููุง ููุฑููุฉู ุฃูุนููููู
Rabbana hab lana min azwajina qurrata a'yun
"Our Lord, grant us from among our spouses comfort to our eyes."
Usage: Powerful dua for rekindling emotional and spiritual closeness
Islamic Tips to Prevent Marital Fights
- Control Anger: Prophet ๏ทบ said "The strong person is not the good wrestler, but the one who controls himself in anger"
- Seek Refuge: Say "A'udhu billahi min ash-shaytan ir-rajeem" when angry
- Change Position: If standing, sit; if sitting, lie down to calm anger
- Make Wudu: Water cools anger as Prophet ๏ทบ advised
- Stay Silent: Avoid saying hurtful words in anger
- Remember Allah: Recite dhikr to bring peace to heart
- Give Space: Sometimes brief separation helps both calm down
Duas for Making Spouse Listen
ุฑูุจูู ุงุดูุฑูุญู ูููู ุตูุฏูุฑููู ููููุณููุฑู ูููู ุฃูู
ูุฑููู
Rabbi-shrah lahu sadrahu wa yassir lahu amrahu
"My Lord, expand his chest [with understanding] and ease his task for him."
Usage: Pray for husband to be open and understanding to your concerns
ุงููููููู
ูู ุงุฌูุนููููู ุณูุงู
ูุนูุง ู
ูุทููุนูุง ููููุญูููู
Allahumma-j'alhu sami'an muti'an li'l-haqq
"O Allah, make him one who listens and obeys the truth."
Usage: Focus on truth and righteousness, not personal whims
ุฑูุจูู ุงุฌูุนูููููู ู
ููู ุงูููุฐูููู ููุณูุชูู
ูุนูููู ุงูููููููู ููููุชููุจูุนูููู ุฃูุญูุณููููู
Rabbi-j'alni mina'lladhina yastami'una'l-qawla fa-yattabi'una ahsanah
"My Lord, make me among those who listen to speech and follow the best of it."
Usage: First improve how you speak, then ask Allah to make them listen
How to Make Your Spouse Listen (Islamic Wisdom)
- Choose Right Time: Don't discuss important matters when spouse is tired or stressed
- Speak Kindly: Allah commands us to speak in the best manner (Quran 17:53)
- Be Clear: Express your needs clearly without expecting mind-reading
- Listen First: Show you also listen to understand their perspective
- Avoid Blame: Use "I feel" instead of "You always"
- Make Dua: Ask Allah to facilitate understanding between you
- Show Respect: Even in disagreement, maintain respect
Duas for Softening Hearts
ุฑูุจููููุง ููุง ุชูุฒูุบู ูููููุจูููุง ุจูุนูุฏู ุฅูุฐู ููุฏูููุชูููุง
Rabbana la tuzigh qulubana ba'da idh hadaytana
"Our Lord, let not our hearts deviate after You have guided us."
Reference: Quran 3:8 - Hearts are in Allah's control; ask Him to guide them
ุงููููููู
ูู ุฃููููู ููููุจููู ููู ููุงุฌูุนููููู ุฑูุญููู
ูุง ุจูู
Allahumma allin qalbahu li wa-j'alhu rahiman bi
"O Allah, soften his heart for me and make him merciful to me."
Usage: When husband's heart seems hardened or distant
ุงููููููู
ูู ู
ููููููุจู ุงูููููููุจู ุซูุจููุชู ููููุจูู ุนูููู ุฏูููููู
Allahumma muqalliba'l-qulubi thabbit qalbi 'ala dinik
"O Allah, Turner of hearts, make my heart firm upon Your religion."
Reference: Sahih Muslim - Reminder that Allah alone turns hearts; ask Him
ุงููููููู
ูู ุฃููููู ูููููุจูููุง ููุงุฌูุนูููููุง ุฑูุญููู
ูุฉู
Allahumma allin qulubana wa-j'alha rahimah
"O Allah, soften our hearts and make them merciful."
Usage: General supplication for softening hearts in any relationship
Understanding Heart Softening in Islam
- Allah Controls Hearts: Only He can truly change someone's heart
- Your Role: Make dua and be the best version of yourself
- Be Patient: Heart changes take time and are in Allah's timing
- Show Kindness: Your good character can help soften hearts
- Don't Force: Accept that some hearts may not change
- Make Sadaqah: Charity removes hardness from hearts
- Increase Dhikr: Remembrance of Allah softens hearts
Duas for Getting Love Back
โ ๏ธ Important Note About Getting Love Back
Islam teaches us to respect people's choices and boundaries. If someone has moved on or ended a relationship, these duas are for asking Allah's guidance - NOT for forcing someone against their will. Accept Allah's qadr (decree) and trust that if it's meant to be, Allah will facilitate it naturally through halal means.
ุฑูุจูู ุฅููููู ููู
ูุง ุฃููุฒูููุชู ุฅูููููู ู
ููู ุฎูููุฑู ูููููุฑู
Rabbi inni lima anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqir
"My Lord, indeed I am, for whatever good You would send down to me, in need."
Reference: Quran 28:24 - Prophet Musa's dua expressing complete dependence on Allah
ุญูุณูุจูููุง ุงูููููู ููููุนูู
ู ุงููููููููู
Hasbuna'llahu wa ni'ma'l-wakil
"Allah is sufficient for us, and He is the best Disposer of affairs."
Reference: Quran 3:173 - Trust Allah's plan; if they return it's best, if not, He has better
ุงููููููู
ูู ุฅููู ููุงูู ุฎูููุฑูุง ููุฑูุฏูููู ุฅูููููู ููุฅููู ููุงูู ุดูุฑููุง ููุงุตูุฑููููู ุนููููู
Allahumma in kana khayran fa-ruddahu ilayya wa in kana sharran fa-srifhu 'anni
"O Allah, if it is good, return them to me, and if it is bad, turn them away from me."
Usage: Leave the decision to Allah - trust His wisdom
Islamic Guidance on "Getting Love Back"
- Respect Boundaries: Never harass or pressure someone who has moved on
- Self-Reflection: What went wrong? Work on improving yourself
- Accept Qadr: Sometimes separation is Allah's protection for you
- No Forbidden Means: Never use magic, manipulation, or emotional blackmail
- Halal Approach: If pursuing reconciliation, do so through proper Islamic channels
- Move Forward: If Allah doesn't bring them back, He has someone better
- Make Istikhara: Seek Allah's guidance before pursuing reconciliation
Duas for Bringing Someone Back in Your Life
ุงููููููู
ูู ุฅููู ููุงูู ููููู ุฎูููุฑู ููู ููููุณููุฑููู ููู
Allahumma in kana fihi khayrun li fa-yassirhu li
"O Allah, if there is good for me in this, then make it easy for me."
Usage: Conditional prayer - only if it's good for you
ุฑูุจูู ุฅููููู ููู
ูุง ุฃููุฒูููุชู ุฅูููููู ู
ููู ุฎูููุฑู ูููููุฑู
Rabbi inni lima anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqir
"My Lord, indeed I am, for whatever good You would send down to me, in need."
Reference: Quran 28:24 - Express need to Allah and trust His choice
ุงููููููู
ูู ุงุฑูุฏูุฏููู ุฅูููููู ุฑูุฏููุง ุฌูู
ููููุง
Allahumma-ruddahu ilayya raddan jamila
"O Allah, return him to me in a beautiful manner."
Usage: For separated spouses; combine with improving yourself and the relationship
ุฑูุจููููุง ุฃูุตูููุญู ููููุง ุดูุฃูููููุง ููููููู
Rabbana aslih lana sha'nana kullahu
"Our Lord, set right for us all our affairs."
Usage: Comprehensive dua including reconciliation with spouse
When Someone Leaves - Islamic Perspective
- Make Dua: Ask Allah if it's good to bring them back
- Self-Improvement: Work on the issues that caused separation
- Seek Forgiveness: If you wronged them, sincerely apologize
- Give Space: Don't pressure or harass them
- Accept Outcome: If they don't return, trust Allah's wisdom
- Move On: Sometimes Allah removes someone to bring someone better
- No Magic: Never seek magic or manipulation to bring them back
Duas for Difficult Relationship Situations
For Broken Heart and Emotional Pain
ุงููููููู
ูู ุฅููููู ุฃูุนููุฐู ุจููู ู
ููู ุงููููู
ูู ููุงููุญูุฒููู
Allahumma inni a'udhu bika mina'l-hammi wa'l-hazan
"O Allah, I seek refuge in You from anxiety and grief."
Reference: Sahih Bukhari - The Prophet's ๏ทบ dua for emotional distress
For Forgetting Someone You Love
ุงููููููู
ูู ุฃูุฐูููุจู ุนููููู ููุฐูุง ุงููุญูุจูู ููุงุดูุบููู ููููุจูู ุจูุฐูููุฑููู
Allahumma adh-hib 'anni hadha'l-hubba wa-shghal qalbi bi-dhikrik
"O Allah, remove this love from me and occupy my heart with Your remembrance."
Usage: When you need to move on from someone for your own wellbeing
ุงููููููู
ูู ุงุดูุบูููููู ุจูู
ูุง ููููููุนูููู ููุงููููุนูููู ุจูู
ูุง ุนููููู
ูุชูููู
Allahumma-shghalni bima yanfa'uni wa-nfa'ni bima 'allamtani
"O Allah, occupy me with what benefits me and benefit me with what You have taught me."
Usage: Redirect thoughts to productive matters and worship
ุงููููููู
ูู ุฅููููู ุฃูุณูุฃููููู ุญูุจูููู ููุญูุจูู ู
ููู ููุญูุจูููู
Allahumma inni as'aluka hubbaka wa hubba man yuhibbuk
"O Allah, I ask You for Your love and the love of those who love You."
Reference: Tirmidhi - Replace worldly love with love of Allah and righteous people
Healing from Heartbreak Islamically
- Turn to Allah: Increase prayers, especially Tahajjud
- Make Dhikr: Keep your tongue busy with remembrance
- Read Quran: Healing and peace come from Allah's words
- Stay Busy: Engage in beneficial activities and worship
- Trust Allah's Plan: What's meant for you won't miss you
- Don't Isolate: Stay connected with good friends and family
- Give It Time: Healing is a process, be patient with yourself
Duas for Respect and Attraction
ุงููููููู
ูู ุงุฌูุนูููููู ู
ููู ุงูููุฐูููู ููุญูุจููููู
ู ุงููููุงุณู ููููุญูุชูุฑูู
ููููููู
ู
Allahumma-j'alni mina'lladhina yuhibbuhumu'n-nasu wa yahtarimuhum
"O Allah, make me among those whom people love and respect."
Usage: Focus on being respectable through good character, not forcing respect
ุงููููููู
ูู ุญูุจููุจูููู ุฅูููู ุฎููููููู ููุญูุจููุจู ุฎููููููู ุฅูููููู
Allahumma habbibni ila khalqika wa habbib khalqaka ilayya
"O Allah, make me beloved to Your creation and make Your creation beloved to me."
Usage: Beautiful dua for mutual love and respect with people
ุงููููููู
ูู ุญูุณูููู ุฎูููููู ููุงุฌูุนูููููู ู
ูุญูุจููุจูุง ุนูููุฏู ุงููููุงุณู
Allahumma hassin khuluqi wa-j'alni mahbuban 'inda'n-nas
"O Allah, beautify my character and make me beloved to people."
Key: Good character is what makes people naturally like you
ุงููููููู
ูู ุงุฌูุนููู ููู ููุณูุงูู ุตูุฏููู ููู ุงููุขุฎูุฑูููู
Allahumma-j'al li lisana sidqin fi'l-akhirin
"O Allah, grant me a truthful mention among later generations."
Reference: Based on Quran 26:84 - Prophet Ibrahim's dua for good reputation
Earning Respect and Love - The Islamic Way
- Good Character: Prophet ๏ทบ said best of you are those with best character
- Truthfulness: Always be honest and trustworthy
- Humility: Don't be arrogant or boastful
- Help Others: Be of service to people
- Good Manners: Smile, greet with salam, be polite
- Keep Promises: Be reliable and dependable
- Respect Others: You earn respect by giving respect
- Seek Knowledge: People respect knowledgeable individuals
Wedding Day Duas
ุงููููููู
ูู ุฅููููู ุฃูุณูุฃููููู ุฎูููุฑูููุง ููุฎูููุฑู ู
ูุง ุฌูุจูููุชูููุง ุนููููููู ููุฃูุนููุฐู ุจููู ู
ููู ุดูุฑููููุง ููุดูุฑูู ู
ูุง ุฌูุจูููุชูููุง ุนููููููู
Allahumma inni as'aluka khayraha wa khayra ma jabaltaha 'alayhi wa a'udhu bika min sharriha wa sharri ma jabaltaha 'alayh
"O Allah, I ask You for her goodness and the goodness of the disposition You have given her, and I take refuge in You from her evil and the evil of the disposition You have given her."
Reference: Abu Dawud - The groom's prayer when first meeting his bride
ุงููููููู
ูู ุจูุงุฑููู ููููุง ูููู
ูุง ุฑูุฒูููุชูููุง ููุฃูุทูุนูู
ูููุง ุฎูููุฑูุง ู
ููููู
Allahumma barik lana fima razaqtana wa at'imna khayran minh
"O Allah, bless us in what You have provided for us and feed us better than it."
Usage: Recite before starting the wedding feast (Walima)
Spouse Health & Success Duas
ุงููููููู
ูู ุฃูุตูููุญู ูููู ุฏูููููู ููุฏูููููุงูู ููุขุฎูุฑูุชููู ููุนูุงูููู ููู ุจูุฏููููู ููุฑูุฒููููู
Allahumma aslih lahu dinahu wa dunyahu wa akhiratahu wa 'afihi fi badanihi wa rizqih
"O Allah, make right for him/her their religion, their worldly life, and their Hereafter, and grant them health in their body and sustenance."
Usage: Complete prayer for spouse's spiritual, physical, and material well-being
ุงููููููู
ูู ุจูุงุฑููู ููููุง ูููู
ูุง ุฑูุฒูููุชูููุง ููุฒูุฏูููุง ู
ููู ููุถููููู ููุฑูุญูู
ูุชููู
Allahumma barik lana fima razaqtana wa zidna min fadlika wa rahmatik
"O Allah, bless us in what You have provided for us and increase us from Your bounty and mercy."
Usage: Daily prayer for family's financial well-being and barakah
Special Marriage Situations
ุงููููููู
ูู ุงุญูููุธู ุฒูููุฌูู ููุงุฑูุฏูุฏููู ุฅูููููู ุณูุงููู
ูุง ุบูุงููู
ูุง
Allahumma-hfaz zawji wa-ruddahu ilayya saliman ghaniman
"O Allah, protect my spouse and return them to me safe and successful."
Usage: For when spouse travels for work or other obligations
Daily Marriage Duas
Daily Islamic Marriage Routine
๐
Morning Together
After Fajr: Thank Allah for spouse
Pray for each other
Set positive intentions
โ๏ธ During Day
Remember spouse in duas
Send loving messages
Seek halal rizq together
๐
Evening Reunion
After Maghrib: Pray together
Share experiences
Express gratitude
๐ Night Preparation
Before Sleep: Forgive conflicts
Make duas together
Plan tomorrow
Weekly Marriage Enhancement Program
- Sunday: Plan family goals and Islamic studies together
- Monday: Express gratitude - list spouse's good qualities
- Tuesday: Surprise day - small gifts or special gestures
- Wednesday: Communication day - deep conversation and sharing
- Thursday: Service day - help each other with tasks
- Friday: Spiritual day - attend Jummah together, extra prayers
- Saturday: Quality time - halal entertainment together
Righteous Spouse Qualities
Prophet's Guidance on Choosing Spouse
The Prophet ๏ทบ said: "A woman is married for four things: her wealth, her family status, her beauty, and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will be a loser." (Bukhari & Muslim)
Essential Qualities for Righteous Husband
๐ Religious Commitment
Regular prayers
Quran recitation
Islamic knowledge
Fear of Allah
๐ฐ Financial Responsibility
Stable income
Good work ethic
Financial planning
Generous with family
๐ค Good Character
Honest and trustworthy
Patient and kind
Respectful
Good with children
๐จโ๐ฉโ๐งโ๐ฆ Family Values
Loves children
Respects parents
Maintains family ties
Protects wife's rights
Essential Qualities for Righteous Wife
๐คฒ Religious Devotion
Regular prayers
Islamic knowledge
Modesty and hijab
Quranic character
๐ Loving Nature
Kind and compassionate
Supportive
Loves children
Creates warm home
๐ Homemaking Skills
Manages household
Good with finances
Cooking abilities
Organization
๐ง Intelligence & Wisdom
Good judgment
Problem-solving
Educational pursuits
Practical wisdom
Red Flags to Avoid in Marriage
- Religious Issues: Neglects prayers, lacks Islamic values
- Character Problems: Dishonesty, anger issues, disrespectful behavior
- Family Conflicts: Doesn't respect parents, poor family relationships
- Financial Irresponsibility: Poor money management, unrealistic expectations
- Communication Issues: Doesn't listen, avoids serious conversations
- Lifestyle Incompatibility: Very different life goals and values
Final Marriage Success Tips
- Make daily duas for your spouse's well-being and success
- Express gratitude to Allah for the blessing of marriage
- Follow prophetic example in treating your spouse
- Seek Islamic knowledge about marriage rights and responsibilities
- Communicate openly with kindness and respect
- Resolve conflicts quickly through forgiveness
- Support each other's spiritual and worldly growth
- Maintain family connections and respect in-laws
- Remember that marriage is half of faith - treat it as worship
- Trust in Allah's wisdom during both easy and difficult times