Marriage
Choosing who to marry. Accepting or saying no to a proposal.
Complete Istikhara guide in Arabic, English & Transliteration
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Istikhara (ุงุณุชุฎุงุฑุฉ) is a special Islamic prayer. You pray it when you need Allah's help with big decisions.
The word comes from Arabic. It means "asking for what is best."
How it works:
You pray 2 rak'ah. Then you make a special dua. You ask Allah to guide you to the right choice.
The Prophet Muhammad ๏ทบ taught us this prayer. It helps with both this life and the next.
When to use Istikhara:
Choosing who to marry. Accepting or saying no to a proposal.
Changing jobs. Starting a business. Picking a course.
Buying property. Big investments. Important financial choices.
Moving to a new city. Going abroad. Big family decisions.
Only use Istikhara for halal (allowed) things. Don't use it for haram (forbidden) matters.
In Arabic:
Dua for Istikhara - Transliteration
Dua for Istikhara in English Translation
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Follow these steps. This is how the Prophet ๏ทบ taught it.
Wash for prayer. Wear clean clothes. Face the Qiblah.
Pray two units. Read any surah after Al-Fatiha. This is a nafl (extra) prayer.
Do tashahhud. Send blessings on the Prophet. Say salam.
After salam, raise your hands. Get ready for the special dua.
Say the full Istikhara dua. When you reach "this matter," say what you need help with.
Ask Allah to make it easy if it's good. Ask Him to turn you away if it's not.
You can pray again for 2-7 nights. Stop when you feel clear about your choice.
Last third of the night is best. Or pray between Maghrib and Isha. Don't pray at the 3 forbidden times.
Istikhara Supplication: When and How Often
You can perform Istikhara multiple times for the same matter until you feel confident about your decision. Some scholars recommend praying it for seven consecutive days, while others suggest continuing until you receive clarity.
Marriage is one of the most significant decisions in life, making Istikhara particularly important in this context. When performing Istikhara for marriage, you should:
When you reach "hadha al-amr" in the dua, you might say: "marriage with [person's name]" or "accepting this marriage proposal" or "marrying someone with these specific qualities."
Regular practice of Istikhara brings numerous spiritual and psychological benefits that enhance your relationship with Allah and improve decision-making abilities:
Studies show that contemplative practices like prayer improve cognitive function, reduce stress hormones, and enhance decision-making abilities by promoting clearer thinking and emotional regulation.
Allah's response to Istikhara may manifest in various ways. Learning to recognize these signs helps you understand the divine guidance you receive:
Remember that Allah's choice for you is always best, even if it differs from your initial preference. Trust in His wisdom and timing, knowing that He sees what you cannot see.
Different life situations may require slightly different approaches to Istikhara. Here's guidance for common scenarios:
Following proper Islamic etiquette enhances the spiritual effectiveness of your Istikhara and demonstrates respect for this sacred practice:
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